Thursday, July 31, 2008

The Person That I Will Meet Tomorrow :: With Super-Duper Tight Security

Former British Prime Minister Tony Blair will speak on the rule of law and good governance at the 22nd Sultan Azlan Shah Law Lecture in Kuala Lumpur on Friday.

Blair will be following in the footsteps of his wife, Cherie, who spoke on The Role of the Judge in a Human Rights World at the same lecture series in 2005. Blair was Prime Minister from May 1997 until June last year, when he stepped down to make way for Gordon Brown.

After graduating from Oxford in 1976 with a Second Class Honours BA in Jurisprudence, Blair became a member of Lincoln’s Inn, where he enrolled as a pupil barrister and met his future wife, Cherie Booth.

Blair was elected Leader of the Labour Party in July 1994 following the sudden death of his predecessor John Smith. Under his leadership, Labour won a landslide victory in the 1997 general election, ending 18 years of rule by the Conservative Party.

Blair was Labour’s longest-serving Prime Minister and the only leader to have taken the party to three consecutive general election victories. The lecture series is named after the Sultan of Perak and one-time Lord President of the Federal Court.

Attendance is by invitation only. For enquiries, contact the organisers at 03-7967 6501/6502/6500.


Former British Prime Minister Tony Blair and his wife Cherie taking a stroll at the Butterfly Park in Teluk Bahang, Penang, yesterday. Blair is in Malaysia to deliver a speech at the 22nd Sultan Azlan Shah Law Lecture in Kuala Lumpur on Friday. – Picture courtesy of SIM PIAH NGAN


Tomorrow is compulsory for us (UM law students) to attend his public lecture..
before attending the lecture some research need to be done in order to know the speaker well so that I will have faith on what he deliver and know the level of the speech.

here are some of the material that i got after googling bout once the most powerful man in UK and maybe EUROPE in future(rumour said that he may be the 1st President of European Union aka PRESIDENT OF EUROPE) under Treaty of Lisbon that would come into force in 2009!

My friend said that He is good-looking-handsome-British-gentleman..
i admit that he is better looking than me and the lil Bush BUT i still think that he was not a gentleman during at the Prime Minister office.. What can i use to describe him......................................................
the man behind the successful man--a stupid Bush's follower that create the wars n chaos around the globe!


Tony Blair

Prime Minister Tony Blair

Born: 6 May 1953 in Edinburgh, Scotland

First entered Parliament: 9 June 1983

Age he became PM: 43 years, 361 days

Maiden Speech: 6 July 1983, when he spoke about the unemployment problems in his Sedgefield constituency.

Total time as PM: 10 years, 56 days

Facts and figures

Education: Fettes College, Edinburgh and St John's College, Oxford University

Family: Tony Blair is the second of three children. He married Cherie Booth QC, a barrister, in 1980. They have three sons and one daughter.

Interests: Spending time with his children, reading (mainly literary classics and biographies), watching thrillers, swimming, playing tennis and playing guitar

Biography

Pre-1997

Tony Blair was born in Edinburgh, but spent most of his childhood in Durham. At the age of 14 he returned to Edinburgh to finish his education at Fettes College. He studied law at Oxford, before going on to become a barrister.

After standing unsuccessfully for the Labour Party in a by-election in Beaconsfield in 1982, Mr Blair went on to win the seat of Sedgefield in the General Election the following year, aged 30.

Tony Blair made a speedy rise through the ranks until the Labour leader, John Smith, promoted him to Shadow Home Secretary following the 1992 election.

John Smith died suddenly and unexpectedly in 1994 and, in the subsequent leadership contest, Tony Blair won a large majority of his party's support.

He immediately launched his campaign to modernise the Labour Party and re-claim the political centre, which he saw as essential for victory. Party members showed their support for his project when they voted to remove Labour's historic commitment to public ownership, helping Mr Blair to create what he coined "New Labour."

1997-2001

The Labour Party won the 1997 General Election by a landslide, after 18 years in Opposition. At the age of 43, Tony Blair became the youngest Prime Minister since Lord Liverpool in 1812 and moved into Number 10 with his family.

The new government immediately began a far-reaching programme of constitutional change. Following referendums in both Scotland and Wales, a range of powers was devolved to the new Scottish Parliament and National Assembly for Wales.

An elected post of Mayor of London was established at the head of a new capital-wide authority, and all but 92 hereditary peers were removed from the House of Lords in the first stage of its reform.

Big investment in health and education was promised following Tony Blair's election and, in 2000, major plans were announced to overhaul the NHS, including extra beds, new building schemes and more staff.

New literacy and numeracy strategies were introduced from 1998 and as part of plans to transform secondary education, particularly in troubled cities, the first academy projects were announced in September 2000.

One of Mr Blair's most radical reforms came in when, in 1998, following means testing, many university students in England paid tuition fees for the first time.

On 10 April 1998, Tony Blair led the UK government's team that negotiated the Good Friday Agreement in Northern Ireland. It set out plans for devolved, inclusive government, the early release of terrorist prisoners, the decommissioning of paramilitary weapons and the reform of the criminal justice system.

In 1999, Mr Blair played a large part in resolving the Kosovo crisis, persuading NATO to take a strong stance against Yugoslav President, Slobodan Miloševic.

The following year, Mr Blair sent troops to Sierra Leone to make a vital contribution to restoring order and disarming rebel forces during the country's civil war. In May 2000, British armed forces stopped rebels taking the capital and saved the elected government from near collapse.

2001-2005

Tony Blair was re-elected with another landslide majority in the 2001 General Election. By 1 August 2003, he had become the longest continuously serving Labour Prime Minister, after surpassing Harold Wilson's 1964-1970 term.

The attacks in New York and Washington of 11 September 2001 meant that much of his second term focused on foreign policy issues - notably the 'war on terror', which began in Afghanistan following the attacks, and the war in Iraq.

Africa was an increasing priority for Mr Blair during his second term. In February 2004, he helped to launch an international commission to examine the situation in Africa and policies towards the continent. The following year it recommended that wealthy nations double their aid to the continent. Also in 2005, the UK pledged to pay 10% of developing countries' foreign debts, beginning with Tanzania's, to try to combat poverty.

The issue of climate change also became increasingly important. Having previously pledged the UK's support for the Kyoto Protocol, Mr Blair made a speech in September 2004, where he warned that action was essential to avoid "catastrophic consequences".

Mr Blair's government pushed through a series of major domestic reforms during this period too, including increased investment in public services, especially health, education and transport.

The reform of the NHS continued with the launch of the first NHS foundation trusts - NHS hospitals with increased financial and managerial independence - in 2004.

In 2004, the Higher Education Bill was narrowly passed in Parliament, meaning that instead of a flat rate, universities would be able to charge up to £3,000 per year from 2006. To support poorer students, the reintroduction of means-tested maintenance grants and loans to cover fees were also planned.

2005-2007

The Labour Party went on to win a third term for Mr Blair in May 2005, albeit with a reduced majority.

In July 2005, Tony Blair chaired the G8 summit at Gleneagles. The two biggest issues discussed were climate change and Africa. G8 nations agreed to cancel the debts of 18 countries and to a $50 billion (£28.8 billion) boost to aid.

On 6 July 2005, Mr Blair was pleased when London won the opportunity to host the 2012 Olympics. However, the next day, the nation's mood went from joy to sorrow, as a series of bomb attacks on London's transport network killed 52 people and injured 700. Mr Blair returned to London from the G8 summit to condemn the terrorists and pay tribute to the people of London.

Later that year, the UK held the EU presidency, where a new EU Budget deal was made.

At home, Mr Blair's government made further proposals to reform the NHS, including placing a greater emphasis on community services. Further reforms to education were also promised when Mr Blair's controversial education bill, which aimed to increase parental choice and allow maintained schools in England to link with independent trusts, was supported in Parliament.

New proposals were made on the reform of pensions too. These included encouraging personal savings, linking basic state pensions to earnings, widening eligibility and increasing the pensionable age.

And, in May 2007, Mr Blair announced that the UK would have to increase its use of nuclear energy if it was to reduce carbon emissions and meet the need for renewable energy.

In 2006, Mr Blair declared that the "IRA's campaign is over" after the publication of a report by the Independent Monitoring Commission. In May 2007, a new executive in took power in Northern Ireland, almost five years after the previous institutions were suspended.

Tony Blair announced his resignation on 10 May 2007 and left office on 27 June 2007, to be succeeded by Gordon Brown. He continues to be interested in inter-faith issues and the promotion of inter-faith understanding.

taken from http://www.number10.gov.uk/output/Page12006.asp

Image:Tony Blair at the World Economic Forum.jpg

OK la.. He is the Best-Looking Ex-Prime Minister in the World la..

better than Dr M n Pak Lah...lalalalalalalala

Sunday, July 27, 2008

Sunday :: Study Day :: Week Planning


Sunday,
A nicey weekend for most of the people..
a suffering day for most of my coursemates..

no movie, no outing, no joy.. just book!
preparing for the following week..
so will have a safe week without any trouble with those kinda sweeny todd, jokers looked tutors 'n lecturers..or even scary..
(hehe.. this year classes better than last year in Datin Noraini's class)


this will be a long week for me..

a lot of programmes planned for this hold week..

Special Events For WEEK 4
(Shit!! im back to study for a MONTH d??!! What had i done all this long -.-")
  • Tuesday--buddies meet
  • Wednesday--wanna watch Chinese Debate at API (maybe movie in the evening)
  • Friday--Sultan Azlan Shah Public Lecture at Mandarin Oriental (Guy, we are so near with PC fair!)
  • some other small thingy which time have not set yet (meeting with PBUM Birthday Celebration's Director..etc)

So where is my time for my study?!

Izzit No Need Study again for this week??!

Thursday, July 24, 2008

Malacca Trip :: Post 3

















the 2nd day of the trip..
althou it was a rainy morning but we were lucky that the rain stop by noon..
made our way to the most historical location in Malaysia..
the A Famosa and St Paul Church..
Enjoy the photos with those Ladies SS-ing

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

The Concept of Fuel Subsidy in Malaysia :: 所謂油價津貼! [转帖]




在一個農場裡﹐每天可以生產10粒蘋果。
農場裡有 5個工人和1個場主﹐總共6個人。
他們每天一人吃一粒蘋果﹐就足夠維持農場裡的運作﹐所以還有剩下4粒蘋果。
場主把這4粒蘋果賣了﹐一粒 RM10。結果賺了RM40。
場主把這RM40拿來提昇農場裡的所有設施﹐設備﹐但是一天最多也需要RM25罷了。
多出的RM10就拿來發給5個工人﹐每人有 RM2。

還有RM5拿來當作自己的盈利。

日子這樣下去﹐這個農場就變得很先進而且工人的住宿和環境都是一流的。5個工人也存了一筆錢。
但是不久這個好場主去世了﹐來了個新場主。新場主說﹕"我們要提昇農場素質﹐要有一流的思維。
現在你們吃的蘋果﹐需要給RM1.00。
但是你想想﹐這是很便宜的﹐你去外面買蘋果一粒要RM10叻﹗

工人沒辦法﹐就繼續做工和每天給 RM1.00來吃他們以前每天吃的免費蘋果。

結果他們現在每天只得到RM1.00。
現在﹐新場主還是把多餘的4粒蘋果拿去賣﹐賺了
RM40﹐還是像從前一樣﹐RM25拿來提昇設施﹐RM10就拿來發給5個工人﹐RM5拿
來當作自己的盈利﹐再來﹐現在那5粒蘋果他賣給工人﹐賺了
RM5.00。現在他共有每天RM10.00盈利。

不久﹐蘋果售價突然大漲了一倍﹐外面售價

RM20一粒。現在新場主還是把多餘的
4粒蘋果拿去賣﹐大賺了 RM80。
農場的設施提昇工程現在換了是新場主的朋友承包。新場主的朋友說﹐蘋果售價大漲﹐設施提昇工程的費用也要漲價了﹐變成
RM50。
其實真正費用才 RM30﹐新場主把多出來的
RM20和他的朋友平分。
現在新場主有﹐
RM10 (和他的朋友平分的提昇工程費)
RM20 的盈利(RM80-RM50-RM10=RM20)
RM5 的賣蘋果給自己員工賺的錢。

總共是RM35.00。比起以前的RM10﹐

新場主多賺了RM25.00﹗!
哇﹗﹗﹗暴利叻﹐蘋果售價突然大漲﹐農場賺多了
RM25.00。但是工人還是每天只賺取RM1.00。
但是﹐貪心的新場主卻招來
5位員工﹐對他們說﹐"你們看看﹐蘋果現在的市場售價是
RM20 一粒﹐但是你們卻用 RM1.00
來買一粒蘋果﹐你看你們多幸運﹗"
"我就辛苦了﹐我需要津貼你們每人

RM19.00﹐總共 RM95.00
來給你們蘋果吃啊﹐你看農場的津貼負擔多麼的重﹗"
"農場真的很辛苦了﹐再這樣下去﹐農場會破產﹐倒閉。現在我賣你們每粒蘋果
RM1.50 吧﹐我辛苦一點來津貼RM18.50。"

那麼現在新場主的暴利又增加了﹐RM20 + RM10 +
RM7.50 = RM37.50。又賺多了RM2.50。這 RM2.50
是從哪裡賺來的﹖
就是從自己工人的口袋賺來的。



Tonight I wanna cry



Artist : Keith Urban
Album : Be Here (2004)
Song : Tonight I Wanna Cry


Alone in this house again tonight
I got the TV on, the sound turned down and a bottle of wine
There's pictures of you and I on the walls around me
The way that it was and could have been surrounds me
I'll never get over you walkin' away


Chorus:
I've never been the kind to ever let my feelings show
And I thought that bein' strong meant never losin' your self-control
But I'm just drunk enough to let go of my pain
To hell with my pride, let it fall like rain
From my eyes
Tonight I wanna cry


Would it help if I turned a sad song on
"All By Myself" would sure hit me hard now that you're gone
Or maybe unfold some old yellow lost love letters
It's gonna hurt bad before it gets better
But I'll never get over you by hidin' this way


Chorus:
I've never been the kind to ever let my feelings show
And I thought that bein' strong meant never losin' your self-control
But I'm just drunk enough to let go of my pain
To hell with my pride, let it fall like rain
From my eyes
Tonight I wanna cry


Chorus:
I've never been the kind to ever let my feelings show
And I thought that bein' strong meant never losin' your self-control
But I'm just drunk enough to let go of my pain
To hell with my pride, let it fall like rain
From my eyes
Tonight I wanna cry



Sunday, July 20, 2008

Malacca Trip :: Post 2









went to a wooden jetty near at the Portugis Settlement..
quite long to the middle of the sea.. didnt make it to the end of it because it been occupied..
the environment there is nice excluding the_______ seawater -.-"
a few nice photos during there.. with lyann and agnes as the amateur models..hehe

Saturday, July 19, 2008

Malacca Trip :: Post 1















The 1st location to visit when reach Malacca, The Cheng Hoon Teng Temple.
Nice old Buddhist Temple..
It s a waste if it is demolish in order for the development..

Friday, July 18, 2008

Future Home




took the photos during my holiday at end of June/early July..
after around 6 weeks of constructions.
can c the structure d..

moving in new house soon..
in around 3-4 months will move in the newly build house..
surrounded by many trees with limited human being..
1 big building nearby which the resident isnt human but birds.
a towkei had build a bird-house there for bird-nest harvest.
luckily not much noise from the building.
better that current house which situated in-front of a thai-food restaurant that serve thai girls instead of thai food..
haven think of my new room design yet.
don bother it too much as most of my time i spend it in KL.

so hometown friends,
in future if u wanna find me better call me 1st..
im sure u gonna lost without any direction from me.

Thursday, July 17, 2008

:: 14th July :: My Day ::


Attendees


guys


gurls


birthday gifts...


SiokKhoon


ChiaHuey

YingYik


ChiuJing



Finally it s my turn..
consider as the last person to celebrate in the year of 2008. it s a busy day as i had to attend meetings and celebrations with friends. but it s a wonderful birthday. it s a blessed that i can spend my birthday with friends.
thank you guys!

Date : 14 July '08
Loc :Tappers, Jaya One, Petaling Jaya.
Time :4.00pm
Attendance:chia huey, shi bin, chwee yen, chiu jing, lyann, ying yik, princess, siok khoon, loo yinn, kent, chor soon, elvis, chee seng, raymond, agnes, ying ying.



beside this celebration with "birthday friends" (YY's term for our friendship), during the nite of the day after my meeting with MGCC, i did went to celebrate my birthday with Pei Fen "deep", Huey Ning, Miko and Cia Wen at Uptown Damansara.

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

爱迪生欺骗了世界!

爱迪生欺骗了世界!(大亨马云给雅虎中国员工的精彩演讲)

今天是我第一次和雅虎的朋友们面对面交流。我希望把我成功的经验和大家分享,尽管我认为你们其中的绝大多数勤劳聪明的人都无法从中获益,但我坚信,一定有个别懒的去判断我讲的是否正确就效仿的人,可以获益匪浅。

让我们开启今天的话题吧!

世界上很多非常聪明并且受过高等教育的人,无法成功。就是因为他们从小就受到了错误的教育,他们养成了勤劳的恶习。很多人都记得爱迪生说的那句话吧:天才 就是99%的汗水加上1%的灵感。并且被这句话误导了一生。勤勤恳恳的奋斗,最终却碌碌无为。其实爱迪生是因为懒的想他成功的真正原因,所以就编了这句话 来误导我们。

很多人可能认为我是在胡说八道,好,让我用100个例子来证实你们的错误吧!事实胜于雄辩。

世界上最富有的人,比尔盖茨,他是个程序员,懒的读书,他就退学了。他又懒的记那些复杂的dos命令,于是,他就编了个图形的界面程序,叫什么来着?我忘了,懒的记这些东西。于是,全世界的电脑都长着相同的脸,而他也成了世界首富。

世界上最值钱的品牌,可口可乐。他的老板更懒,尽管中国的茶文化历史悠久,巴西的咖啡香味浓郁,但他实在太懒了。弄点糖精加上凉水,装瓶就卖。于是全世界有人的地方,大家都在喝那种像血一样的液体。

世界上最好的足球运动员,罗纳耳朵,他在场上连动都懒的动,就在对方的门前站着。等球砸到他的时候,踢一脚。这就是全世界身价最高的运动员了。有的人说,他带球的速度惊人,那是废话,别人一场跑90分钟,他就跑15秒,当然要快些了。

世界上最厉害的餐饮企业,麦当劳。他的老板也是懒的出奇,懒的学习法国大餐的精美,懒的掌握中餐的复杂技巧。弄两片破面包夹块牛肉就卖,结果全世界都能看 到那个M的标志。必胜客的老板,懒的把馅饼的馅装进去,直接撒在发面饼上边就卖,结果大家管那叫PIZZA,比10张馅饼还贵。

还有更聪明的懒人:

懒的爬楼,于是他们发明了电梯;

懒的走路,于是他们制造出汽车,火车,和飞机;

懒的一个一个的杀人,于是他们发明了原子弹;

懒的每次去计算,于是他们发明了数学公式;

懒的出去听音乐会,于是他们发明了唱片,磁带和CD;

这样的例子太多了,我都懒的再说了。

还有那句废话也要提一下,生命在于运动,你见过哪个运动员长寿了?世界上最长寿的人还不是那些连肉都懒的吃的和尚?

如果没有这些懒人,我们现在生活在什么样的环境里,我都懒的想!

人是这样,动物也如此。世界上最长寿的动物叫乌龟,他们一辈子几乎不怎么动,就趴在那里,结果能活一千年。他们懒的走,但和勤劳好动的兔子赛跑,谁赢了? 牛最勤劳,结果人们给它吃草,却还要挤它的奶。熊猫傻了吧唧的,什么也不干,抱着根竹子能啃一天,人们亲昵的称它为“国宝“。

回到我们的工作中,看看你公司里每天最早来最晚走,一天像发条一样忙个不停的人,他是不是工资最低的?那个每天游手好闲,没事就发呆的家伙,是不是工资最高,据说还有不少公司的股票呢!

我以上所举的例子,只是想说明一个问题,这个世界实际上是靠懒人来支撑的。世界如此的精彩都是拜懒人所赐。现在你应该知道你不成功的主要原因了吧!

懒不是傻懒,如果你想少干,就要想出懒的方法。要懒出风格,懒出境界。像我从小就懒,连长肉都懒的长,这就是境界。

再次感谢大家!

Thursday, July 10, 2008

::Happy Ending 07/08 Session::June Birthday Bash::


June Birthday Guy 'n Gurls
Happy Birthday and Hope all Wishes Comes true ya


BBQ..


The Last Gathering for 2007/2008 - Isaac As the Cameraman...again..

Final Gathering for our 2nd year 'n June Birthday Bash!!
Monthly Celebration comes again..
Nobody Birthday on the day of the celebration. However we had an early celebration with those who born on June. (Look like none of us born on May)
This time we having BBQ at Agnes's Place and continue with Birthday Celebration.
After the celebration we couldn't going back to UM campus since the gate was locked at 12am.
We ended up yamcha at a Mamak at Sec14 til 6am.(the 1st time princess stay awake til dawn..hehe)
4 persons was celebrate- YY, Lyann, Elvis and Ingle.

Date : 06 May '08
Loc :Agnes's Place, Surian Condo, Mutiara Damansara.
Time :7pm
Attendance:chia huey, shi bin, chwee yen, chiu jing, lyann, ying yik, princess, siok khoon, loo yinn, issac, kent, chor soon, elvis, chee seng, raymond, agnes, kian chun, ying ying.

Wednesday, July 9, 2008

女生寫的追女仔方法(传帖)

女生寫的追女仔方法

我是女生,看到有的男生想追自己喜歡的女孩子又不敢追,還想人家倒追她,我很反感
.
從一個女生的角度,我比較了解女孩子的心理。女孩子大多不會主動出擊,去追求自己
喜歡的男孩,除了確實太喜歡了或者是那種比較有個性的勇敢的女孩子。所以,如果你
很喜歡一個女孩子,并且認為她對你也有點意思,那就主動點,別跟她搞拉鋸戰,自己
難受,說不定你喜歡的人也痛苦。

任何一個女孩子在被人追的時候,心理都是很復雜的。她也許很開心,但是又帶著點惶
恐,她對這個闖進自己平靜的生活的男孩子,有著欲拒還迎的矛盾心理,她不是故意的。
不要怕你的主動會帶來她的反感,你不主動,她也不主動,也就慢慢淡下來了。如果你
開始的表白被她拒絕,那也很正常呀。不要氣餒,誰知道這個女孩子心里在想什么呢?


也許你再表白兩次,她就會被你打動,一個心地善良的好女孩是很容易感動的。

如果你受到一次挫折,就立刻離開,再也不去答理這個女孩,把自己緊緊地保護起來,
默默地舔舐傷口,在你痛苦的同時,殊不知,那個女孩子也許也正在心里遺憾、后悔呢
!也許她會偷偷哭泣,后悔拒絕了你,再看到你漠然的眼神,她也很痛心,但是她卻不
會對你說,絕對不會請求你回來追她。你的過度的自尊心,可能會傷害了女孩子敏感的
心。

她會認為你不是真誠的喜歡他,要不怎么會就這么放棄了她?

有人說,男生真難,追女孩子太不容易了。可是我的感覺卻是,這種現象跟男人和女人
的社會角色定位是分不開的,從生理和社會的角度,女人總是被動的。如果反過來,讓
男人都脈脈含羞,女人變得勇往直前,世界才亂了套呢!女人的羞澀總是美好的、動人
的呀~我總是聽說是某個勇敢的男人戰勝了多少困難,最終獲得佳人芳心。相反的例子
卻少得很。

有的男生,就怕別人說自己什么死纏爛打,落下不好的名聲。可是我覺得男生追求自己
喜歡的女孩子,受了點挫折還繼續對這個女孩子好,說明人家確實很喜歡,很有誠意,
如果沒成功,也不遺憾,并沒什么啊?誰讓人家喜歡了?最討厭別人跟著瞎摻乎,也最
討厭那種自己沒主意,過于在乎別人對自己看法的男生,活該這種男生找不到女朋友。


是男人就勇敢點,女孩子本來就感性,容易沉浸在愛情里。雖然你付出了辛苦,而一旦
你的真心打動了她,那么你得到的將是更多更久的加倍的愛。這樣的例子,在身邊比比
皆是。女孩子對自己的男朋友都是很溫柔很貼心的,為了換來這份甜蜜,開頭的辛苦算
什么啊?而且大多好女孩都愛得挺投入挺專一的。

所以,建議有的男生勇敢一點,去追求自己喜歡的女孩子,不要那么畏畏縮縮,一來是
讓人覺得你沒男人氣概,二來是你自己怪難受的,然而最最最重要的還是:最后你什么
都得不到。幸福總是自己掙來的,別指望別人施舍給你!

再補充一句,我覺得主動點兒挺好的,因為你的目標是你自己真心喜歡的,女孩子往往
被動,被動的只能選擇接受和拒絕,所以我寧愿主動出擊,愛我所愛,無怨無悔!

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人生很美好,快樂在其中,要學會尋找!

一、應該給MM留下什么樣的第一印象(時間:剛開始接觸MM)

1、我認為最關鍵的,是要讓MM看到你的上進心。
男人的最大魅力在于事業有成,年輕人工作時間不長談不上“有成”,這時候你就要讓
MM覺得你是個有上進心的人。
別的可以胡說八道,但這個問題不能含糊,你一定要告訴MM,你對未來充滿信心,你不
滿足于現狀,并且你已經有了長遠的計划,總之你的未來不是夢。

2、要顯得有信心、有責任心
不要像個小孩子,女孩子都很懶希望能找個依靠,你要拿出自己的信心和責任心來。
有一個錯的選擇總比沒有選擇要好的多。
3、不要太正經,但也不要太隨便
該正經的地方就正經,該調侃的的時候就調侃。
女孩子都喜歡有點玩世不恭的男人,所以別顯得對什么都特別在意,那樣太呆板。

4、顯得成熟一點
遇事鎮定、從容不迫的男人對MM有致命的吸引力。

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二、如何與MM展開進一步接觸(時間:開始追的階段)

1、這個階段最關鍵的是不能著急,不要把事情弄的那么清楚,讓人家一眼就能看出你

追人家。
想一想,一般人都不會一眼就看上你,但也不會看一眼就討厭你,都是老百姓家的孩子
(除非你長得象周潤發劉德華或者凱文科斯特納),好感是需要隨著了解的不斷增加而
實現的,所以問題的關鍵是你要得的進一步發展的機會。
站在女孩子的角度替人家想一想:你這么直接了當的沖過來要搞對象,女孩子肯定有心
理壓力。這要是接觸一陣后發現不喜歡你,那不就成了耍你了么?所以如果你開始就擺
出志在必得的姿勢出來,基本上會被立刻悶回去。

2、要低姿態起步
首先要把關系定位成“朋友”,本來是“普通朋友”,你希望成為“好朋友”,有品位
的還可以要求對方成為“紅顏知己”什么的,總之千萬不要說“追你”。
你想想,你如果根本不提“追”,那么女孩子也就更沒機會“拒絕”你---你沒追她怎
么拒絕你?!
這樣可以減輕女孩子的心理壓力,使你們能順利的交往下去。不要幻想認識三天就答應
嫁給你,要充分的交往,了解,感情不是憑空產生的。

3、交往的過程中不要太急躁
要有張有弛,不要整天纏著人家,誰這樣對你,你也會膩。我有個好朋友對我說,追女
孩子的關鍵是八個字---"忽冷忽熱、欲擒故縱”(這是我同學多少年心血的結晶)。
你整天纏著人家自然不覺得你好,你適當的冷個一兩天,女孩子就會想起你在的好處了

還有就是不要拿出“非你不娶”的志氣來,太掉價了不好,有時候可以耍點花招。

4、要適當的創造機會
前面說了,不要使事情立刻變成“你在追別人”,而你又需要得到接近女孩子的機會,
這時就要看你的創造力了。
你可以搜集情報,想辦法把守株待兔變成一場邂逅﹔也可以裝做漫不經心的找出最最充
足的理由邀請對方和你一起做什么事。
總之這個是最有技朮含量的地方,實在不行可以找前輩請教。

5、切忌切忌:隨便送人家禮物是不禮貌的
有些人追女孩子心切,喜歡經常買東西送人家,殊不知追女孩子最忌諱這個。
俗話說“無功不受祿”,你這樣送人家東西就是在施加壓力,人家會覺得欠你的,所以

想辦法還給你,如果沒辦法還給你就會想辦法不和你交往,免得總是欠你人情。
如果你想顯示自己的誠意,倒不妨請女孩子一起消費,比如說找好的餐廳吃飯,或者找

的地方一起玩什么的,女孩子自然能看出你花了很多錢,但錢終究是兩個人一起花
了而不是變成東西帶回家。

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三、“女朋友”到底是什么?

1、“女朋友”是一種事實,而不是一份承諾
你和女孩子開始交往,從“普通朋友”變成“好朋友”,再到“非常非常好、無話不談
的朋友”,某一個陽光燦爛的午后,你“不小心”拉了她的手﹔“月上柳梢頭”,你突
然襲擊吻了她。這時她就已經是你的女朋友了,無論她是否承認,她心理已經認為你是
他男朋友了。
我知道最高明的,直到上床了都沒問過“你是否愿意做我女朋友”,最后還是女孩子急

:“你怎么還不求我做你女朋友啊!” 所以說,千萬不要急于把窗戶紙捅破,情況越朦朧對你越有利。

2、“表白”是什么?
前面說了,表白實際上就是一個形式而已,正確的順序應該是:事實上已經成為你女朋

了,你才能向人家表白,水到渠成。
很多人弄不明白這個問題傄詾槿思蚁却饝?
做自己女朋友,然后再如何如何,我只能說非常非常“單純”,也非常非常“愚蠢”。


3、有沒有“迫不得已非表白不可”的時候?
有,比如說出現第三者,或者你和女孩子關系沒有成熟但兩個人可能分開一段時間。
這時候的表白就是條件不成熟的表白,風險非常大,類似于下圍棋的時候形勢嚴峻,落
後的一方迫于無奈放出“勝負手”,贏了就贏了,輸了也只能說“倒霉都是天生的”。

4、“愛”字不要輕易出口
經常看見論壇出現“大膽的表白”,說實話我真的認為這是非常不成熟的一種表現。“
愛”是一個神聖的字,意味著追求,也意味著承諾,甚至體現出一種責任。
隨便說“愛”的男人是不負責任的。

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四、文明戀愛,不可強求

1、不是每個MM都能追到手的
好女孩子總會有很多人追,不可能遂了每個人的心愿,總會有失敗者。舉個例子,就算
你刻苦鑽研掌握了最搞超的追MM原理,你一樣追不上TWINS里的任何一個。
換個角度考慮問題,一個小學沒畢業的農村小保姆,即使對你再好,每個月賺600給你
買700的禮物(透支),愿意為你“當牛做馬”,你也不會愛上她。如果她每天哭哭啼
啼的纏
著,你肯定覺得煩。
所以說愛情是需要物質基礎的,至少需要平衡。

2、追MM做是一種嚴肅的社會活動
千萬不要把人家搞煩了,要給自己留后路。大丈夫何患無妻?有些MM確實勢利眼(少數
),如果不服氣,你可以發憤圖強,用事實証明“她當時瞎了眼”,絕對不要誤人誤己




最后補充兩點:

千萬不要在MM面前顯得憤世嫉俗,憤世嫉俗有時候意味著“你很失敗”。~~~

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